Friday, 28 August 2015

Love - An Eternal Beauty of Soul_Short Story

Neha is self-centric girl. She finds her happiness in small world of her people:family and friends. Amit is a guy who has a crush on her from the college time. Is attraction or feelings going to help them in discovering the new world where only love word exists? 
Check out what happen next in this short story by provoking this link - novumlogic.com/djrush/jigar/LOVE_An_Eternal_Beauty_of_Soul.pdf

Saturday, 15 August 2015

The Independence Day



The Independence Day. It’s been many decades that India has broken the shackles of slavery and has emerged as the world' largest democracy. Since independence India has witnessed many metamorphic changes in all domains. The Indian youth has broken all the stereotypical myths associated with being Indian by roots. Today Indian youth is making incredible progress in each spheres of life - politics, education, industry, agriculture, etc. India being an amalgamation of many cultures is still evolving in terms of its values. beliefs, perception and is keeping pace with the world. Through all these years our Bible document - our Constitution too has undergone many amendments, showing our adaptability to change. The recent amendments are proofs of we being open to change, as we the citizens of the republic India understand the fact that 'change is permanent'.
We have changed. Sorry! Seriously? Yes, we have. We have progressed. But this progress has disparity. We talk about rights, equality, and secularism and so on one hand but than in the same set of population we have people, who are deprived of their basic rights, face inequality and injustice on many grounds.
I guess independence is not the only thing we as citizens need in today' time. With independence and freedom there should be responsibility. Responsibility while we speak, acts, labels others and represent our motherland.
I dream of a land where there would be equality and justice. Where there would be rationality. Where lame thinking would not stop our girls to opt to wear dress of their choice. Where sex won’t be a taboo topic to discuss with children. Where being gay would be legal and normal and that they too would be allowed to live and be 'happy and gay'. Where education would reach across all sections, class and castes. Where reservation would not be the only action of social inclusion and upliftment where everyone would be free spirit.
We should thank our martyrs and freedom fighters for the freedom and independence that we are breathing today. Though we are united by nationality we need to be united further on humanitarian grounds. I can’t afford to miss quoting Rabindranath Tagore at this point 'where the mind is without fear and the head is held high...my father let my country awake'. And that day is not too far.
India will shine and emerge as the brightest star amongst all soon. We just have to realize that it’s cool to be Indian!!!!

Tuesday, 31 March 2015

It’s HIS choice

            Feminism is something world is going gaga about and naturally it gets attention from everyone as it is one of the major issues in the society. In attempt to address, Vogue India released a video with Deepika on “Empower Women” message that has buzzed social media. In the video, Deepika talks of freedom of ‘Choices’.

No doubt womanhood should be celebrated.

No doubt it's your body, your mind, your choice.

No doubt, to be a size zero or size 15, is your choice.

No doubt, to marry or not to marry, is your choice.

No doubt, to love a man, or a woman, or both is again your choice.

But having sex outside of marriage? Your choice? I doubt!

To carry a baby or not? Solely your choice? I am afraid not.

• If you have choice to wear whatever you want, he has a choice to wear whatever he wants too. Do not call him outdated if he doesn’t give in to your fashion sense. It’s HIS choice. If it is your choice to wear a breast revealing dress, it is his choice to look at it and fantasize. It’s HIS Choice.

• If you have a choice to accept AIB Roast and laugh out loud on the jokes, the journalist also has a choice to publish the story in the way he wants. It’s HIS Choice!
• You have a choice to be size zero or size fifty he has a choice too. Don’t call him baldy if he has a receding hairline. Don’t call him fat ugly old useless man and refuse to take him to dinners because you feel embarrassed. Don’t push him to join Gym/VLCC just because you want him to reduce. It’s HIS Choice.
• You have a choice to marry or not to marry. He has a choice to marry the one he wants to and say No if he doesn’t want to. He can marry a wealthy chic because he thinks it would make his life better just the way women marry rich men. He can marry a fair beautiful slim girl just like women want tall good looking guys. He can dump whosoever he wants. It’s HIS Choice.
• You have a choice to work or not to work. No one should dictate that. Well, he has a choice to earn or not to earn too. He has a choice to go for a job or sit at home too. Do not call him a loser if he doesn’t earn much. It’s HIS Choice.
• If you have a choice to have sex before marriage, or outside marriage, or not have sex at all, he has a choice to all that too. Do not file a rape case on him if you had sex before marriage and later he did not marry you. Do not file a dowry and domestic violence and physical and mental cruelty case on him if he has sex outside marriage. Do not call him impotent and cry he ruined your life if he does not have sex at all. Do not get him arrested if he is a Gay and loves men. After all it’s HIS Choice.
• If it’s your choice to love temporarily or lust forever, it is his choice too. It is his choice to love you temporarily and move on when he finds someone better, someone hotter than you. If you can dump whoever you want, he can too. It’s his choice. Don’t call him pervert, desperate. He can have lust.
• You are my choice. I am not your privilege. Ahhh well …you are also his choice. He is also not your privilege that he would behave exactly the way you want him to. The way he wants to be is his choice. Stop changing him because he is not your privilege. And if he refuses to change according to you It’s His Choice.
• If it’s your choice to come home at 4am or 6pm; it’s his choice too to come whenever he wants. Don’t be upset and presume he is screwing women around while he might be slogging in office just to make sure you can afford a holiday this year at a foreign location. If you can have work, he can have work too and he can choose not to come home because it’s HIS Choice.
• If he goes out and chats with other women, do not call him a flirt and other names. It is his choice to interact with anyone who he wants. Talking to whom, at what time, with how many, for how long it’s HIS Choice.
• If it’s your choice to come home at 4am or 6pm; it’s his choice too to come whenever he wants. Don’t be upset and presume he is screwing women around while he might be slogging in office just to make sure you can afford a holiday this year at a foreign location. It’s HIS Choice.
• It is your choice to have his baby or not. Give him also a choice whether he should have a baby from you or someone else. Also, when you decide to get married to him but have someone else’s baby, do not beg for maintenance for that baby from him after a paternity fraud. To not pay for that baby It’s HIS Choice.
• You are my choice. I am not your privilege. Ahhh well …you are also his choice. He is also not your privilege that he would behave exactly the way you want him to. The way he wants to be is his choice. Stop changing him because he is not your privilege. And if he refuses to change according to you It’s His Choice.

                  Miss Deepika Padukone if it is your choice to open the bra strap in a video that’s supposed to reach millions of young girls you need to make a better choice to what you want to tell them. Doctors are already worried of rising numbers of teen pregnancy. You cannot preach choice without taking responsibility of those choices. We are human beings and our choices cannot be summed up in a 2 minute video. Because life is lived off Youtube and every choice has an action or reaction to it!
                 Miss Deepika, Size, Sexual preferences, Clothes might be feminism to you. Real women in villages or even cities face issues with basic education, girl child abortions, dowry and what not. Women need empowerment for basic rights not with sexual choices. Feminism isn’t about preferring women over men, It is about equality. … [1]
                 Yes, I am a man, but correct me if I am wrong when I define feminism. Isn't feminism about breaking even with both the genders rather than pulling one down? Isn't it about meting out equal treatments to both the sexes than being anti-men and slut-shaming other women? Yes, a certain section of men need to be shamed, but does feminism endorse inflicting pain on men in general to derive pseudo pleasure? In my opinion, the term feminism is as much for men as it is for women because men too struggle with gender stereotypes.
                  There is a very fine line between freedom and absolute choice, and that absolute choice can have multiple connotations, good, bad or ugly. The video can never be justified as empowering, not with Vogue's name on it, not with Deepika Padukone hooking her bra, and most importantly never on the pretext of feminism.
                  Oh, by the way, I never said you should not watch the video. You should, by all means. Because you too have that CHOICE, just like I do of having this opinion.
                                                                            [1- Article By : Deepika Narayan Bharadwaj ]

Friday, 27 March 2015

A World to Live on …

              Tring… Tring… Call ended… Tring… Tring… Call ended… ”The Person you are trying to call is currently busy”.
                 Busy! In the Real world, that means no buffering. A World is where we do not need to sign up or sign in. A world is where we may login without any password. A world, you are notified of spending time with yourself. A place is where you can heal yourself.
                Take a nature’s call, pack your bags, and lead towards the life, a path where you could walk alone without updating to other people. Life becomes very easy where we guided by our heart but not an app. A time is more valuable than your timeline. A world is where you could post your thoughts for your own life, but not for wall.
            Try to be in the lap of nature where you could hang out and make a friend without any sending request. A world where you could have conversation without any character limits. Come out from all reel worlds where you could not find yourself real. Try to spend time with yourself and feel breathe of nature, feel the existence of yourself. Start loving yourself rather than loving others picture. Play the game where you could emerge yourself. Play the game but not giving life on the screen.
            Take a snap of the nature, collage it, and upload with your memory, but not for more likes. Make friends in real not to increase the friend list. Draw the circle of your life and paint it with your happiness. Upload your own story without any drag down button. Browse yourself where only you could have the answer of the questions. Walk on the path without any back button. Keep yourself alive 24*7 but not showing your Last Seen.
            Restart your day without switching off. Emerge your dreams with your belief without any airplane mode. Take a sip of a coffee, sharing it with your soul. Connect to your heart but not with headphones. Follow your heart not people. Get a real mode where you do not need to charge up yourself to wait to drain out the battery. Motivate yourself and do not forget to tap your back with your own hand. Feel the presence of your existence and rejoice the journey by upgrading yourself. Allow your heart to direct in the direction of your dream but not been navigated. Pop up yourself with the upmost skills, accelerate with time where there is no option of uninstall.
            Merge your present with environment of nature along with your golden time, but not with your past. Wake up; get over from your lethargic day. Arise with the sun and enjoy the glimpse of its ray. Get sunshine and get a ray.
            So now, take a call and respond to nature with yourself. A life is a very simple and full of contentment if we stay OFFLINE. However, the World is more beautiful than the World Wide Web.                                            
  ** Switch Off **




Tuesday, 24 March 2015

a Friend in need is a Friend indeed

You are the girl of your own life; you are the queen of your own life,
I don’t know who you are, but I see myself when I am there by your side,
The curls, the worry disappears from my life when you come up with your dimple smile;
Life becomes smooth when you take a sip of joy;
It’s not love nor like, because I know you are mine.
The days and nights that we had spent together; and coming days are much better
I utter myself in this line; you are the reason behind my smile.
I know you are tube light, you wish to touch the sky and fly high,
but infect you are the light of my life.
A million stars up in the sky one shines brighter I can’t deny,
a love so precious a love so true,
a love that comes from me to you.
I could walk a thousand miles, just to see your perfect smile.
Forever and always I’ll stay strong, for you my dear you are my bond.
I love the way you look at me, your eyes so bright and blue.
I love the way you kiss me, your lips so soft and smooth.
I love the way you make me happy, and the ways you show you care.
I can’t build a mountain or catch a rainbow fair,
But let me be what I know the best,
A friend who’s always there.
Our story will continue to grow with each passing day,
Because I trust that with you by my side, everything will always be Okay.
You are so dear to me, you know I will love you until the end,
I will always be there for you, and
You will always and forever bee my best friend.

Saturday, 21 February 2015

Have I lost something?



The time is passing by and days are flying very soon. I have just realized that it’s been a year that I have been into the professional life. Dude, we have grown up a year elder very soon I guess. It was just like a day back I was bunking the college and paying attention in the world called “Student”. And now been called a Man. Am I not dreaming? The days were went in struggling with the books and surviving for a marks to pass out in the examination and the days I had to keep my hand on my pocket whether I would survive and live lavish life with sort of money? Would I be able to tell my crush about how I feel for her? Could I take her to date? Ehhh… The day we had been partying with friends and keeping fear in mind of parents for not coming late home. We were not waiting for any weekend or any kind of off day to make any plans. We were not making any plans to cherish our moments but we were making plans to print these images in our life. We had time but running out of money. But still we managed our self to survive with the Royal Facility. ;)
            We were getting mad on each and every thing. Whether it is about a crush or late night party or night out or simple a meeting with friends. Before we bolt for the exit door of the problems while now we stand their ground and solve it. Those days, the responsibilities, problems, burdens were far away from our life. We were more in the area of interest of being called “Boyfriend/Girlfriend”. Though our life was messed up with very poor problems, we were reacting like we are under the burden of problems. We easily found out the way to escape. Because we had always been into that area to make our right impact on everyone. We were in a race to drag our self into the top no matter how slow we are! We always wanted to defeat other people with our capabilities or comforts no matter whether with a right or wrong way. We were in a phase where we could not see our drawbacks but with our strength we wanted to grab everything which we liked. We were hurry in increasing the number of friends in d real and reel life too.
            In fact, it's a question that's been asked since time immemorial. What separates the men from the boys? From being a Professional man to students. Since I have realized I have been a year elder, I’d asked myself “Have I really lost something?” That time I couldn’t speak. But got many unwanted answers from eyes and shrugged lips. I guess my wet eyes and rolling down ears on cheeks have told me enough what I have gained and lost. I guess nothing has been changed. But the only thing is that our mind has grown. We are still d same in the body of boy but having a mind and gesture like a man.
            Being a man isn’t just about crossing a certain age or looking a certain way. It’s a lot more. Age doesn’t restrict us but our maturity level restricts us from allowing some stuff. The world has a lot of cheeky, noisy, reckless boys but what we need are more responsible, composed men. We build up the responsibility of social and professional life. Now we get a title called a ‘Man’. We care for our self and have an effortless way of being the center of attention without even trying. Being a boy we were trying to get flustered in the face of adversity and now being a man we are confident enough to overcome. Problems stop being problems and become challenges now. We are so much busy with our life that we are dying to see the weekend. Everybody runs after making money. Sometime they actually forget how and who they were. Their passion and hobbies become just a dream to make it true. We have everything. Friends. Money. But lack of time. Before we always tried to hold the hand of victory, and now don’t care about pretty victories or power games, we do care about the real things. We are hoping for the best and prepare for the worst as well. We are in the phase of maintain the relation rather than developing. We treat woman/girl right and give them the care they deserve. Our ego takes a back-seat and true personality comes to the fore. The term like a “Constructive criticism” makes sense and confidence becomes more than just a 10 words.
            We have become the director of our film named Life and trying out to give the best shot with no retake and debut our self as a lead role throughout the years and life. We hardly get a day off from the work and responsibilities and the bunking word becomes a past word. We are filled with the mobile balance but unfilled with time.
And at the end we realize awaking up till 2am for no reason is better than working till 8pm and sleep at 10; running out of time from the lectures is much better or relived than running out of dead line of work; reaching late in period is much better than reaching late home from work; having 200 bucks in pocket and going to fascinate as a king is much better than having 2000 bucks and to screw your self-up sitting in front of the computer; Taking stress of completing assignments is much better than completing presentation/reports.
When we look back, everything seems to be changed. Time, bond, priority, behavior, goals, relation. We wanted to jump back into that life with craziness, but get failed. And might not know whether we are on the right track or wrong but we start hating less and loving more. Our main focus has become a life. A life … to spend a life with a life partner. And once the seas of your soul have calmed down, you turn up a much happier, soother and sorted human being.

A Pressure: More Than Shaadi Ka Pressure

Guess what? I am back with another write-up. Well, it’s been so long since my writing here. However, you guys might have questions about my ...